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		<title>Comment on Happy Birthday to Me. by Sue</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 15:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Happy Birthday to Me. by Judith Mandell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judith Mandell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 13:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wouldn&#039;t believe it if I hadn&#039;t seen it! Must try these. Love, Judith</description>
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		<title>Comment on For Artyom by Quill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Quill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 02:37:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, the thing is, many parents choose not to parent their bio kids either. They leave them with grandparents or the courts, or just give them a house key and hope it all works out ok, and it doesn&#039;t create an international incident. I have no doubt, too, that she&#039;s unstable. But how did the social workers miss it? Why did the airline accept the child on the flight? How did he get through security with an expired passport? The system failed him miserably - as it does so many children in the U.S., adopted or otherwise. Sometimes those who need help the most are unable or unwilling to seek it out. Maybe all new parents need regular visits from a social worker.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, the thing is, many parents choose not to parent their bio kids either. They leave them with grandparents or the courts, or just give them a house key and hope it all works out ok, and it doesn&#8217;t create an international incident. I have no doubt, too, that she&#8217;s unstable. But how did the social workers miss it? Why did the airline accept the child on the flight? How did he get through security with an expired passport? The system failed him miserably &#8211; as it does so many children in the U.S., adopted or otherwise. Sometimes those who need help the most are unable or unwilling to seek it out. Maybe all new parents need regular visits from a social worker.</p>
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		<title>Comment on For Artyom by Judith Mandell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judith Mandell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 23:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laurie...I agree with you completely. Since the &quot;mother&quot; is kind of local, other weird stories are emerging, indicating possibly a not very stable person. I feel sad for the folks whose adoptions are pending and now interrupted, or (I hope not) forbidden. Love, Judith</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laurie&#8230;I agree with you completely. Since the &#8220;mother&#8221; is kind of local, other weird stories are emerging, indicating possibly a not very stable person. I feel sad for the folks whose adoptions are pending and now interrupted, or (I hope not) forbidden. Love, Judith</p>
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		<title>Comment on For Artyom by Reagan Dahl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reagan Dahl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 20:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No one walks into adoption blindly, I don&#039;t care what the circumstances are!  Adoption is a tough, wonderful road to building a family and you never give up on it!  What would she have done if her son was bio?  Give up on him?  I don&#039;t think so.  This woman is unfit to be considered a human being in my opinion!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No one walks into adoption blindly, I don&#8217;t care what the circumstances are!  Adoption is a tough, wonderful road to building a family and you never give up on it!  What would she have done if her son was bio?  Give up on him?  I don&#8217;t think so.  This woman is unfit to be considered a human being in my opinion!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A night out by Abacus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abacus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 11:46:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the clarification.  I got the impression that nothing going on there was really affiliated, just getting the space used in their own autonomous ways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the clarification.  I got the impression that nothing going on there was really affiliated, just getting the space used in their own autonomous ways.</p>
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		<title>Comment on For Artyom by Abacus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abacus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 11:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can understand the emotions that led the mother to her actions, but I can&#039;t understand the actions.  And I can&#039;t quite get my head around that the mother and her mother did this, and there wasn&#039;t anyone to intervene, and that she got so far in her execution of it.  And I&#039;m hoping she&#039;s getting some help, because she needs it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can understand the emotions that led the mother to her actions, but I can&#8217;t understand the actions.  And I can&#8217;t quite get my head around that the mother and her mother did this, and there wasn&#8217;t anyone to intervene, and that she got so far in her execution of it.  And I&#8217;m hoping she&#8217;s getting some help, because she needs it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A night out by Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 09:42:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey steph, nice that you had a good experience at OT301...it might be worth highlighting that De Peper and OT301 (the ping pong portion) aren&#039;t really affiliated with each other (other than the EHBK connection), and so to find out what&#039;s going on entertainment-wise, it&#039;s more useful to keep your eyes out for the name OT301...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey steph, nice that you had a good experience at OT301&#8230;it might be worth highlighting that De Peper and OT301 (the ping pong portion) aren&#8217;t really affiliated with each other (other than the EHBK connection), and so to find out what&#8217;s going on entertainment-wise, it&#8217;s more useful to keep your eyes out for the name OT301&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on A follows B by Abacus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abacus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, I like that we part. I wonder if we can turn that into divide and conquer?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, I like that we part. I wonder if we can turn that into divide and conquer?</p>
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		<title>Comment on A follows B by Amanda Blog and Kiss</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Blog and Kiss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 01:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ack! How did I miss this before!  

Your to-do list of shaking things up could be my very same list.  Like....word for word!  The sad thing is it has also been my list for the past 3 years.  :(  I have it all written down and it never seems to change, or be achieved.  

We should work on that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ack! How did I miss this before!  </p>
<p>Your to-do list of shaking things up could be my very same list.  Like&#8230;.word for word!  The sad thing is it has also been my list for the past 3 years.  <img src='http://www.abacusandquill.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   I have it all written down and it never seems to change, or be achieved.  </p>
<p>We should work on that!</p>
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